Well someone kept something quiet...

[Nutcase]

Anyone on here want to spill the beans on what they got up to?

Congratulations to you both :D

[Feek]

Yay, congratulations :)

[Knipples]

I would like to request some more details and possibly the odd pic or two thankyou please!

Congrats by the way! :D

[Dee]

Dont you think its up to them to start their own thread? :p I am sure not everyone knows?

[Feek]

I had no idea what or who this was about when I posted so I spent twenty seconds on a website I very rarely go to and it became clear :)

[Joe 90]

Another engagement? Baby? What's happened now?

A friend of mine got engaged recently the week after becoming an Oxford med grad - seems to be all the rage at the moment.

[Mark]

Well, I have absolutely no idea what's going on, but I agree with Dee. If they, whoever they are, didn't want to mention it here then that's their choice.

[Kitten]

Yup, I think maybe they are busy this evening and wanted to start their own thread when good and ready! :)

[vix]

Too busy getting drunk tonight to post full details, but will post tomorrow. Just so everyone is clear, no one knew about this, as was our intention so hopefully no one's nose is put out of joint. Thanks for everyone's best wishes :)

[Knipples]

Too busy getting drunk tonight to post full details, but will post tomorrow. Just so everyone is clear, no one knew about this, as was our intention so hopefully no one's nose is put out of joint. Thanks for everyone's best wishes :)

Nose not out of joint in the least here, just very happy for you both! :)

[vix]

You will all be invited to the fun bit, anyway!

Just in case anyone is wondering, Phil and I got married today!

[LeperousDust]

Congrats guys :) Another about ****ing time springs to mind ;D

[Mark]

Congratulations, and what Alex said. ;D

[semi-pro waster]

Big congratulations to you both. Hope you had a great day and all the best for the future. :)

[kaiowas]

Yaaaay!!!1 It's been fun sneaking about. Reading certain posts on various forums and sniggering.

Neither of us wanted a big fuss. We were more bothered about being married than getting married if you know what I mean so we had a small ceremony with only immediate family aware of what was going on.

[Zirax]

Congrats to you both! :D

[Haly]

Congratulations :D

Hope you had an absolutely lovely ceremony :)

[Garp]

Congratulations the pair of you :D

[Kitten]

Aww Vix you looked beautiful. And what a fantastic wedding car :D

[Nutcase]

Well it was a deliberately vague thread in case Mr & Mrs Cutler didn't want it - but I figured as it was on facebook a congratulatory thread was allowed :D

[lostkat]

Awww, how lovely :) You both look very happy in the photos. Congrats!!!

I can completely relate to where you're coming from only wanting a small ceremony with close family too.

[Justsomebloke]

Phil and I got married today!

Congratulations. :cool:

[Jonny69]

Neither of us wanted a big fuss. We were more bothered about being married than getting married if you know what I mean so we had a small ceremony with only immediate family aware of what was going on.
Good for you guys :)

Congratulations.

[Tak]

Yay congrats :D

[Goose]

Congratulations!

[vix]

Thanks everyone :)

Back home now so I can type without being annoyed at my iPhone (and drunk!)

So, back in September, Phil and I decided to get married. Because we would never have the money to do it big style, we decided to have a very small ceremony with just close family. We decided that we wouldn't upset people by telling them we were getting married and then saying 'but you're not invited', by not telling anyone except those invited. This didn't quite go to plan because both out mothers couldn't keep their mouths shut, and I was going to burst so had to tell my workmates and Sam :D

But we pretty much succeeded :)

In the week, I will post up details of the 'reception', which will involve all our friends getting an invite :) Please keep the 29th May free if you are interested, cos that's when it is!!!

We got married at the Register Office in Norwich, which wasn't a bad place to be honest. Then we went to the hotel Phil and I were staying at for a family meal, we had a really fab day and it all went so quickly.

I didn't plan on wearing a proper wedding dress but I was browsing on eBay in December and came across the wedding dress I had always wanted. So it had to be done. I'm so pleased too because I was getting random comments from members of the public about how lovely it was.

The only crisis I had was that I didn't like my hair, but after a few tweaks, it looked pretty good.

Humphrey was of course our wedding car :)

Some pics:

The hotel room, biggest bed ever....
http://www.finkydink.co.uk/albums/userpics/room.jpg

Clothes:
http://www.finkydink.co.uk/albums/userpics/clothes.jpg

The happy trio:
http://photos-f.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc3/hs218.snc3/22532_313617592819_680412819_4024641_7955170_n.jpg

[Tak]

Looks like a wonderful day. Glad it stayed dry (and snowless) for you :) I love how Phil even coordinated his tie with the hotel room :p

[vix]

We couldn't have wished for a better February day really. Snowing like mad here today!

More pics will happen when we get them back from the photographer :)

[Nutcase]

Sounds like the perfect day :D

[Princess Griff]

CONGRATULAAAAATIONS!!!! :D :D :D

[Jingo]

A massive congratulations to you both - I love how you incorporated Humphrey! :D

It looks like you had a fabulously secretive, fun and memorable day - your quote of "being married, not getting married" was truly lovely :)

Enjoy being Mr & Mrs Kawiaiaaiaaixxx! :D

[Princess Griff]

PS - beeeeeeeeeeeeeeeautiful dress :) You look stunning Vix xx

[Glaucus]

Congrats and as said very nice dress.

[Del Lardo]

Congratulations to the happy couple. Loving the wedding car ;D

[vix]

Another pic off the phone.

http://www.finkydink.co.uk/albums/userpics/car2.jpg

[Pebs]

What a fab story! And a beautiful day too :) I don't think a single person would begrudge doing what makes you both happy :)

[Piggymon]

Awww how lovely! So pleased for you both :D

[petemc]

Aw :) Congrats guys.

[Desmo]

That's fantastic guys :D

BIG CONGRATS to you both :)

[Daz]

Brilliant news guys, really pleased for you :) Congratulations :D

[vix]

Some more pics from the family.

Shows the back of the dress:

http://photos-g.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc3/hs238.snc3/22565_1223941363102_1366033717_539264_2178876_n.jp g

Back at the hotel I changed into some white trousers and a black and white corset, which looked really lovely and I could have got away with wearing this for the whole day!

http://photos-g.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc3/hs238.snc3/22565_1223942243124_1366033717_539285_6880531_n.jp g

[BBx]

Congrats to you both I did wonder who 'Vix Cutler' was for a moment there ;) ! - the dress looks beautiful! Esp the back (was going to ask for pics of the back ;))

Looks like you had a lovely day :)

BB x

[vix]

I'm sure there will be lots more pics of the back of the dress once the professional pics are done :)

[Dee]

Cant wait to see the rest!

[Dymetrie]

Congratulations, you two :)

[Admiral Huddy]

Congratulations :)

[Justsomebloke]

I'm sure there will be lots more pics of the back of the dress once the professional pics are done :)

This made me Lol. :cool:

Am real pleased for you both & Thanks for the invite. :cool:

[Psymonkee]

Congrats :)

[vix]

Sorry, pic overlaod, Dad has sent me a few of his.

Smooch:

http://www.finkydink.co.uk/albums/userpics/dads2.jpg

At the table:

http://www.finkydink.co.uk/albums/userpics/dads1.jpg

[Kitten]

awww you both look so happy :)

[vix]

There's few where I have a glum face because I'm walking or concentrating but we were very happy :D And still are!

[Pheebs]

Massive Congratulations to you both - absolutely mega news!!

Vix - you look stunning! What a beautiful dress! It screams you!

Brilliant stuff, lovely thread. Like muchly :)

[Will]

Fantastic opening OP! Completely tease! Though I suspected something was up when I saw Vix Cutler on my facebook page! Brilliant! :D

Congrats to you both! :D

[Dee]

You look GORGEOUS!!!! :):)

Vix, you dont look too bad yourself :D

[vix]

Thanks Will :)

We did plan to post on the forums, we thought we'd have ages between the ceremony and the meal at 4:30 but what with photos and surprise presents, we had no time, managed to get it on FB but then other people were picking up and posting on forums for us :)

[Von Smallhausen]

MR2 as a wedding car ........... absolute win !

Congrats you two and I wish you the very best.

[vix]

Thanks to everyone who has sent us 'stuff' this week, we have felt really speshul :)

Been running round changing my name everywhere, it's a PITA. Worth it though.

[vix]

Professional photos are here, I've uploaded a load to Facebook, but I think if you click the link you can see them without being on FB...

http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=680412819#!/album.php?aid=153594&id=680412819&ref=mf

[Mark]

You must log in to see this page. :(

[vix]

I'll get them on the webspace at some point.

[vix]

This point:

http://www.finkydink.co.uk/thumbnails.php?album=14

[BBx]

Nice point Vix ;)

BB x

[Pebs]

Good point well made :)

[Nutcase]

It's rude to point :P Great pics :D

[Tiggy]

Congratulations to you both!

Vix you looked stunning! The alteration to the back of the dress really sets it off too.

[vix]

Just thought you might want to see our wedding cake :)

http://www.finkydink.co.uk/albums/userpics/cake2.jpg

http://www.finkydink.co.uk/albums/userpics/cake1.jpg

[Haly]

Excellent cake :D

[lostkat]

It was. I ate the back lights *nom* :D

[Desmo]

We missed out on the cake :(

[Knipples]

It was. I ate the back lights *nom* :D
*ahem* WE ate the backlights :p

[Nutcase]

Quality :D

[Tysonator]

I get up to way too much to comment on ! ! ! ! lol