View Full Version : Teens under the knife.
Piggymon
03-09-2007, 19:58
Did anyone see this last night ?
I don't know why but I ended up feeling very jealous of one of the girls :embarassed:
It was quite a good programme - there was one overweight girl who really wanted a tummy tuck and liposuction but her Dad was dead against it because she was eating tons of ****e food and not exercising at all - in the end the surgeon refused to operate because she hadn't done anything to help herself in the first place.
The second girl was very very slim but was also very flat chested - she had a boob job done and it looked like she must have gone up to at least an E cup.
I ended up feeling very jealous and thinking how unfair it all was.
I'm currently quite curvy but I know if I do manage to get down to about 7.5 stone again I'm gonna lose my boobies... or if I stay as I am I will have great boobies but with rolls of fat..... and here she is with the best of both worlds.... it's not fair !! :'(
Don't know why I'm posting this :/
Dymetrie
03-09-2007, 20:03
Don't know why I'm posting this :/
Because you're a fool who gets sucked into the 'media' expected version of what women should look like rather than be happy that you look great (like all the girls here) and have someone who thinks you're amazing?
Sorry Sinead.
Del Lardo
03-09-2007, 20:08
I'm not going to comment on the big boobed girl but I'm pleased to hear that the surgeon refused to operate on the overweight girl who couldn't even be arsed to try and help herself out first. People like that make me mad.
Answer me this. Seriously.
Where are your rolls of fat?
Non existent. That's where. Anyone that has looked at the photographs of you can tell you that, but I'm beginning to think you need to learn to see it for yourself.
I'm actually getting seriously concerned that you're so dead set on losing more weight. You're doing all this muscle building exercise, rather than very basic toning stuff, which is resulting in you developing a strong physique. That's fine but you seem to be expecting the weight loss along side it which is worrying. You know muscle is denser than fat... please, please don't get fixated on your weight as a measure for how good your body is.
Please honey.. you're looking incredible already, I'd hate to see you take it too far the other way :(
Piggymon
03-09-2007, 20:33
I don't think I'm overweight at all but I DO have little rolls of fat - I can see it when I'm wearing a pair of fitted jeans with a tight t-shirt - the fat around my waist and lower back hangs over my jeans and creates a little roll.
I'm lifting the heavy weights because 1 I enjoy it and 2 if you build muscle you will naturally burn a little more fat than if you didn't have any muscle.
I would like a little definition - I can see a wee bit in my shoulders, back and biceps and I think it looks really nice - I want to look like I go to the gym.
Weight isn't the best measurement I know - I'm really going by BF% as a rule.
I think my main problem is I am bigger than what I was before so I'm finding it hard to accept that I might be a better shape than before because of the slight muscle build but I'll get there one day :)
Thank you both for your lovely, lovely words - this wasn't meant to be a down on my thread because to be honest I'm not really that down about myself.
More of a rant at the unfairness of it all :p
Blackstar
03-09-2007, 23:33
There are days when i really think about this kind of thing, mainly when people who are supposed to be supportive really aren't and often end up making me feel even worse.
I think i am right in believing that people are psychologically assessed before surgery in some cases.
Del Lardo
03-09-2007, 23:48
I think i am right in believing that people are psychologically assessed before surgery in some cases.
Any surgeon worth his salt (i.e. any surgeon that you want inside you) will give you a full physical and psychological assesment before they operate. It's not just to protect you but also to protect them from future lawsuits.
Blackstar
03-09-2007, 23:50
Any surgeon worth his salt (i.e. any surgeon that you want inside you) will give you a full physical and psychological assesment before they operate. It's not just to protect you but also to protect them from future lawsuits.
Oh er misses :p
Del Lardo
04-09-2007, 00:03
Oh er misses :p
I was very tempted to add a "fnar" but I didn't think that it would be appropriate for the forums. I now know better and in future I will go with my more childish instincts :D
I saw it. The implants they used were C cups but they looked bigger on her as she was so small framed. In my opinion she would have looked better with something smaller but she was happy so who cares.
The downside is at 17 she hadn't finished growing. Who knows how her boobs would have looked naturally in a few years anyway.
I'm comfortable in my own body and don't want surgery myself but I think that's definitely an age thing. The older I get the less I care!
It makes me really sad seeing all the girls I love being so down on themselves. I see it in a lot of gorgeous ladies in work too.
I made a decision a few years ago. I decided that I might never be thinner or more attractive than I was that day and that I didn't want to look back in 20 years on all these missed possibilities of wearing certain clothes or going out because of how I felt about my looks. I decided to enjoy every day as much as I could - and by god I have!
Treefrog
04-09-2007, 00:44
This is the crux of it all. Sinead is beautiful, sexy and one of the loveliest people (both in personality and figure) that I've had the pleasure to know. But she's still so down on herself.
I remember the first night of the cottage meet and I was amazed at how someone so beautiful and treasured could feel so rubbish, but then I suspect all us girlies feel that way whether we are actually fat/thin etc. It seems to me that the girls with the bestest bodies are the ones who have the most self doubt about it (Kate is another in this section who I think has an AMAZING figure but never seems to see it herself). It makes me sad that we feel like this but I can't deny that although I know I'm no oil painting myself I sometimes can't see any good in me, my face, my figure or anything. Other times I'll feel great and probably more so than I should ;D
It's the curse of the modern world I think, and nothing will change until we believe in ourselves, which could be a long time coming.
*hugs Sinead*
I agree. SÃ*nead, you really are a cutie, I wish you had an older sister ;)
And as for you Kate, you look bloody knockout! Down boy! ;D
And kitten, seeing the welcoming smile on your face when we met was absolutely lovely :)
I'm not too keen on how I look now as the people who were in the swimming pool can probably imagine. Hope I didn't put you off too much, it's the first and only time I've taken my top off in public since I came out of hospital. Thank you all for making me feel confident enough in you to do that.
I made a decision a few years ago. I decided that I might never be thinner or more attractive than I was that day and that I didn't want to look back in 20 years on all these missed possibilities of wearing certain clothes or going out because of how I felt about my looks. I decided to enjoy every day as much as I could - and by god I have!
Good call :)
Del Lardo
04-09-2007, 00:49
It makes me really sad seeing all the girls I love being so down on themselves. I see it in a lot of gorgeous ladies in work too.
I made a decision a few years ago. I decided that I might never be thinner or more attractive than I was that day and that I didn't want to look back in 20 years on all these missed possibilities of wearing certain clothes or going out because of how I felt about my looks. I decided to enjoy every day as much as I could - and by god I have!
wishes that more ladies had your attitude
LADIES you may lack the Y chromosome required to make you sane but in each and every one of you you have the 2nd X chromosome required to make men on this planet act in an unbelievably stupid manner just on the off chance we can impress you :)
it's the first and only time I've taken my top off in public since I came out of hospital. Thank you all for making me feel confident enough in you to do that.
Been avoiding posting in this thread but I just wanted to say thank you for trusting us Jim :)
I didn't see the proggy but I have seen a few similar sounding ones before and I get an all mixed up feeling inside about them.
Sometimes I am really glad for a person who has surgery because they are genuinely distressed and upset about their looks and have worked so hard to not be... yet cannot seem to get past it. It's great for them that we have such technology that can help them.
It does, however, annoy the heck out of me when people just have things done because they can afford to and haven't bothered trying to do things without the aid of surgery.
I think the media sucks majorly. It pretty much uberly screwed me up when I was 18/19 making me feel damn right ugly and depressed with myself and hating other girls who would walk around wearing virtually nothing but being able to do that without worrying about their immaculate figures.
I nearly got me a boob job piggy. Thing is I was told one of my boobs was going to be half chopped off (medical reasons - a cyst and things - bleh) so I was preparing for the worse. I did see a consultant though and he said "Ooh yes... I can see one boob is slightly bigger than the other" and started to prod them which made me lose what little confidence I had in myself altogether. After finding out I didn't have to have a boob chopped (stupid c**k up by the NHS) I still was sooo sooo close to having my boobs reduced anyway. Gladly though... I didn't... leaving my Bob to be uniquely a squidgy bit bigger than Babs. Bless Bob.
I still have days when I'm down, but then other times I just think screw it, it's not worth being like this, I have a good, healthy, body - someone who loves me dearly and really a great life - which you only get one of. I hope you think like this sometimes too piggy - I don't know how I got myself into this thinking mode but it does help massively (unless I'm clothes shopping and then I hate myself!)
I wish I could say I felt like this all the time but sadly not so :) Boo!
Piggy - you're gorgeous and lubberly and I heart you dearly! You can only tell how you feel but as long as you know we genuinely mean what we say then that's cool xxxx
Wubbles
Didn't see that program but I know the sort of thing you mean. It worries me with people so young, they haven't even fully formed and know who they are yet and they are all ready for doing something so drastic. It is quite sad. I can see why people want to change things about themselves, sometimes though you can tell it's everything to do with psychology and nothing to do with physical appearance.
I'm not going to say I am entirely innocent of wanting to change things about myself. Some days I think I look OK, other days I try stuff on and think I look grossly overweight in everything. I do (even though I want to be thinner) still buy myself sexy little numbers to give myself a boost. Can't have my weight worries stopping me buying corsets now can I ?
As for you Piggy...... *mubslap* for you. I would kill for a figure like yours! Just tell me who have to kill ;) *hugs*
leo and I discussed the possibility of your boobies being not real at the cottage meet
I remember someone asking me if they were real or not but can't remember who it was ;D
Pheebs - that doctor sounds a bit odd - all women have one boob bigger than the other!
I worry about ladies who have their breasts reduced when they could lose weight instead. Of course there are some tiny women whose boobs are big and cause back problems but generally the ladies are big all over so they have the operation and carry on eating as they were and their boobs get bigger again.
I'm all for doctors surgerys teaming up with gyms to offer programs for people who need them. It would save the NHS loads in the long run by people being able to avoid serious health problems before they start.
Treefrog
04-09-2007, 14:51
I'm all for doctors surgerys teaming up with gyms to offer programs for people who need them. It would save the NHS loads in the long run by people being able to avoid serious health problems before they start.
Unfortunately so many people seem to think only of the quick fix, and if it involves them putting some effort in then it ain't gonna happen :angry:
So instead they try to sue McDonalds or whatever for making them fat. Duuh!
Sorry we were talking about your boobies but it was in a good way, honest :D
Dear lordy lord! I didn't realise they were quite a topic! You should have just asked! I would have happily of allowed booby pokage for confirmation! (We could have played "find-the-nipple" pokey game! It's like find-the-belly-button but much more fun!)
I remember someone asking me if they were real or not but can't remember who it was ;D
Was it me trying to get some free gropage?!? ;)
Really didn't realise they looked possibly enhanced! That's a new one for the books! :)
Quick fixes = poopy. Though the whole losing weight thingy-ma-bob doesn't seem to be bust reducing for me. Boo! What bothers me is what will happen when booby-enhanced-ladies have babies? Will they pop? :undecided: I recall the doc telling me that I wouldn't be able to breast feed if I had stuff done (well that was the case anyway as Babs was gonna be chopped off. Poor Babs. /me pats Babs.). Surely there could be problems? I wonder whether teenagers really think this through/understand this - I'm sure boobies will change shape and stuff again and they'll end up wanting more done to return them to their previously bought shape?
/me is going to have norks the size of a small tree when she gets preggers.
Atleast I will be able to store my lunch in the cleavage.
/me-with-head-in-boobs "num num num num grapes num num num"
;D
What bothers me is what will happen when booby-enhanced-ladies have babies? Will they pop? :undecided: I recall the doc telling me that I wouldn't be able to breast feed if I had stuff done
I love you Pheebles :)
What you have said is one of the reasons why I haven't had mine done... have thought about it loads of times. One of my friends has had hers done, but its not something we discuss openly.
I want to breastfeed when I have sprogs, so maybe after all that is outta the way... though I don't know if I could have such invasive surgery.
I think my boobs are the thing that makes me look out of proportion, but I'm lucky enough for my man to like em anyways... ;)
I think there's always going to be something that we don't like about ourselves, whether one thing changes or it doesn't. However the media is doing a **** job of letting us love ourselves.
*joins in with the Pheebles nork pokage*
BB x
Treefrog
04-09-2007, 17:16
Yet another BD thread ends up about NORKS!!!!one
I love this place ;D
Atleast I will be able to store my lunch in the cleavage.
My 2 new baby rats are turning into shirt divers - t'is always highly amusing it look down at your own cleavage and see a cute little rattie head peering over the edge of your top to see whats going on ;D ;D
My 2 new baby rats are turning into shirt divers - t'is always highly amusing it look down at your own cleavage and see a cute little rattie head peering over the edge of your top to see whats going on ;D ;D
TPIUWP! :evil:
Piggymon
04-09-2007, 18:43
Some lovely replies in here *hugs BD*
I don't really get down on myself too much these days, I'm fairly happy with how I look, it's just when I see someone who is not only thinner that me but has bigger boobies I want to stamp my feet and shout that it's not fair !
One of these days, hopefully soon, I am going to bloody well stop comparing myself to other women and just be happy how I am.
Other women might be better than me but it's only me who's got my Jamie :)
Other women might be better than me but it's only me who's got my Jamie :)
Actually I share him with you ;) :D
Seriously though, that's exactly the right attitude to have.
We all have up and down times, I do all the time, actually I have them often (down times) I just try not to show it - I feel a little minging at the moment, but I've never felt bad enough to have anything major done so I can't be that bad.
We're all lovely in our own ways, it's not good to keep comparing ourselves to others or media spot light people because they're designed and made up to look great all the time because of the very fact they are in the media spotlight.
Frankly I think all the girls here are among the most attractive girls I know, and the guys are handsome bastards too. Jim, I have so much admiration for you showing your body off, it meant a lot to me that you were so frank with me at Chester.
Let's face it, we're human, emotional creatures that sometimes just need a little boost in confidence. Dawn's attitude is spot on, I just wish more of us could adopt it.
Yeah the 10 year thing is a right bummer :(
BB x
Treefrog
04-09-2007, 20:14
Jim, I have so much admiration for you showing your body off, it meant a lot to me that you were so frank with me at Chester.
Thanks Will, I really appreciate being told that :) I guess I also need to be told things like this from time to time.
Piggymon
04-09-2007, 20:30
Jim, I forgot to tell you... I didn't know what to expect when I saw you and I wondered how bad your injuries were but I had a lovely surprise when I saw you and saw you look exactly how I remember you :)
I'll join with that sentiment. Indeed it's amazing how well you look considering what happened.
Jim, I forgot to tell you... I didn't know what to expect when I saw you and I wondered how bad your injuries were but I had a lovely surprise when I saw you and saw you look exactly how I remember you :)
Agreed likewise. Given what had happened, to see you with so few marks to show for it was amazing.
I'm not too keen on how I look now as the people who were in the swimming pool can probably imagine. Hope I didn't put you off too much, it's the first and only time I've taken my top off in public since I came out of hospital. Thank you all for making me feel confident enough in you to do that.
The situation is hardly the same, but I've not been seen in public with my top off for probably ten years yet I did the same at Chester. I did comment to some people afterwards that I felt great at being confident enough to do that around my buddies.
Piggy, although my glasses were covered in water and my vision was a bit blurredl, I could see you well enough that day to see that you looked good, don't be putting yourself down, girlie *hugs*
LeperousDust
04-09-2007, 22:54
Sinead, it's not about how big it is, its how you use it, wait... wrong thread here... But on a similar note, its not just about their size at all. Boobies are great in every shape and size, bigger does not equal better, people have probably mentioned this above me but i've glossed over the thread missing out on all the dirty talk too probably...
Treefrog
05-09-2007, 00:24
Been avoiding posting in this thread but I just wanted to say thank you for trusting us Jim :)
Jim, I forgot to tell you... I didn't know what to expect when I saw you and I wondered how bad your injuries were but I had a lovely surprise when I saw you and saw you look exactly how I remember you :)
I'll join with that sentiment. Indeed it's amazing how well you look considering what happened.
Agreed likewise. Given what had happened, to see you with so few marks to show for it was amazing.
I'm proud to call you friends. Thank you.
Sinead, it's not about how big it is, its how you use it, wait... wrong thread here... But on a similar note, its not just about their size at all. Boobies are great in every shape and size, bigger does not equal better, people have probably mentioned this above me but i've glossed over the thread missing out on all the dirty talk too probably...
^^ What he said :)
Besides, once you get past a certain size it looks out of proportion with your physique (e.g. Jordan, Jodie Marsh) and thats even worse than being a little flat-chested.
Besides, there is an easy solution if you're worried:
http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=24f1x5KNf4E
http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=24f1x5KNf4E
I worry about the things you find sometimes :p
I worry about the things you find sometimes :p
:happy:
Seriously though, it came from work:
18:29 < jcml> http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=24f1x5KNf4E
18:43 < Garp> wtf?
18:43 < Garp> just what were you searching for to find that?!
18:44 < jcml> they GROW!!!
18:46 < Garp> so do trees..
Bird at work has just had her tits done. She's only little (about your height Sinead) but they really suit her.
BTW Sinead I've known you for what, over 5 years now? I'm sure your boobs are bigger these days than they were when I first knew you - or maybe you just dress differently!
I watched this night with Lom.
Shocking.
17 and having plastic surgery? Try finishing growing first.
Or in the case of the chavvy blonde bint who wanted liposuction and a tummy tuck, lay off the pies fatty.
I do understand the slim girl who had a boob job. she was an A cup and looked flat chested and i can't imagine how she must have felt.
I have huge norks and had boobs at 11 so its alien to me being a teen with small boobs but she's a woman now not a lil girl and i imagine she felt like a girl not a woman.
As for the chavvy blonde girl i was so shocked that she thought of having liposuction and tummy tuck as a quick fix instead of going to the gym and dieting. stupid girl.
She still didn't go to the gym after her dad paid for her to go and she kinda ate better but thats it. I think if she spent 3 days a week at the gym and went on a diet she would lose the weight and tone up and she wouldn't need a tummy tuck at all.
Treefrog
07-09-2007, 22:49
As for the chavvy blonde girl i was so shocked that she thought of having liposuction and tummy tuck as a quick fix instead of going to the gym and dieting. stupid girl.
She still didn't go to the gym after her dad paid for her to go and she kinda ate better but thats it. I think if she spent 3 days a week at the gym and went on a diet she would lose the weight and tone up and she wouldn't need a tummy tuck at all.
Hmm, it makes you wonder if having cosmetic surgery isn't seen a bizarre status symbol? Like a way of showing how much money you (or your parents) have perhaps? Or that daddy's little darling can get whatever she wants in some cases.
Hmm, it makes you wonder if having cosmetic surgery isn't seen a bizarre status symbol? Like a way of showing how much money you (or your parents) have perhaps? Or that daddy's little darling can get whatever she wants in some cases.
It is in some cases i think but this girl's dad was just a normal bloke who i doubt would be able to afford a quarter of what it would cost for this girl to have it done. its shocking how she just wanted a quick fix.
Kell_ee001
08-09-2007, 00:01
I purposely missed this program tbh. I really didn't like the way they put it across in the adverts.
On the subject of boobs, I like mine :D Although I do expect they'll reduce as I lose weight that's something I'll live with (since I'll be losing weight else-where with luck!). There are several ops I would consider having though if I'm honest. However I can't afford any of them and even if I did have some cash atm there are many more important things I could use it for as thankfully surgury isn't at the top of my list. I'll just keep working my big butt off at the gym instead :embarassed:
On the subject of boobs, I like mine :D
I would've said something but Lom is above you....;)
On the subject of boobs, I like mine :D
I'm not sure you'll find my disagreeing with you there ;)
I think if she spent 3 days a week at the gym and went on a diet she would lose the weight and tone up and she wouldn't need a tummy tuck at all.
Not true in my case. I lost a shed load of weight, but I still have a horrible bit of tummy which I don't think will ever go unless I have it surgically removed. It's like excess skin or something and I absolutely hate it. I can't wear a bikini or anything, despite having lost lots of weight since I was 21. It's something I would definitely do if I had the finance available.
BTW Sinead I've known you for what, over 5 years now? I'm sure your boobs are bigger these days than they were when I first knew you - or maybe you just dress differently!
I must admit I noticed this at the Cottage :embarassed: thought they looked great!
Its a shame there isn't a technique which pushes all your excess to the places you want... i.e from thighs to boobles ;)
lol
BB x
Treefrog
08-09-2007, 11:36
On the subject of boobs, I like mine :D
I thought they looked pretty good too. Not that I was looking, I, er, couldn't help noticing :embarassed:
Not true in my case. I lost a shed load of weight, but I still have a horrible bit of tummy which I don't think will ever go unless I have it surgically removed. It's like excess skin or something and I absolutely hate it. I can't wear a bikini or anything, despite having lost lots of weight since I was 21. It's something I would definitely do if I had the finance available.
I thought you looked nice and trim in the tummy area at the meet Kate, certainly nothing noticeable under that green T-shirt.
And God loves you ;D
I thought you looked nice and trim in the tummy area at the meet Kate, certainly nothing noticeable under that green T-shirt.
And God loves you ;D
Thanks for your nice comments TF, but here's a reason you don't notice... it's because I don't show it. It's not because it's not there ;) I'm good at hiding the bits of me that I don't like. It's not really about what other people think anyway. By and large, it makes no difference at all what people say. It's how I feel about myself that gives (or takes) my confidence.
And yes, I suppose he does!
Not true in my case. I lost a shed load of weight, but I still have a horrible bit of tummy which I don't think will ever go unless I have it surgically removed. It's like excess skin or something and I absolutely hate it. I can't wear a bikini or anything, despite having lost lots of weight since I was 21. It's something I would definitely do if I had the finance available.
I understand that as my cousin was the same and she had a tummy tuck. although you are a lot slimmer than she is. she should have waited until she'd lost more weight IMO.
If you are really unhappy talk to your doctor as thats how sammi got her's done.
You can't go living your life feeling uncomfortable and embarrassed when you have such a fantastic figure that i know a lot of girls envy :D
This girl is only 17 so she is still very young and she wasn't huge so things should shrink ok as long as she doesn't loose it rapidly.
Her dad said to her that if she went to the gym and ate a balanced diet an d there was still no change in her then he'd let her have it done and her reply was let me have it done and i'll show you how motivated i am and will go gym and eat better.
Treefrog
08-09-2007, 13:10
By and large, it makes no difference at all what people say. It's how I feel about myself that gives (or takes) my confidence.
I can relate to that only too well :(
And yes, I suppose he does!
According to Feek he does ;)
Piggymon
09-09-2007, 10:28
I must admit I noticed this at the Cottage :embarassed: thought they looked great!
Its a shame there isn't a technique which pushes all your excess to the places you want... i.e from thighs to boobles ;)
lol
BB x
LOL ! :D
Yes they are bigger now than what they were a few years ago, I used to be about a D cup, lost weight went down to a B ( and cried ) got fat and they got rather large, now I'm losing weight sloooowly and building up a little chest muscle they seem *fingers crossed* to be staying put *rejoyces* ;D
People can be far too obsessed about the size of boobies. Any booby is great as far as I'm concerned; they're all fun to play with. There are much more important things to worry about, like the likelihood of surviving in the event of a plane 'landing' on water.
On the OP I'm surprised to hear of cosmetic surgery being carried out on anyone of that age, given the likelihood that their bodies will change a fair bit over the next few years.
Kell_ee001
11-09-2007, 23:35
Its a shame there isn't a technique which pushes all your excess to the places you want... i.e from thighs to boobles ;)
That would be awesome but I would be extremely top heavy, as in would break my back kinda heavy, simply from all the other places I want it removed from! ;D
My cousin has implants and successfully breast fed.
Yep. I know several women who have successfully (or have been told they can) breast feed after a boob op. :)
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