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killerkebab
20-10-2007, 18:40
... and I am not even joking.

Last night was a novel experience for me. I decided to go on the M4 towards Reading. All was well until at some point in my nighttime journey I lost concentration for a few seconds.

Long enough for my right tyre to find gravel, and for the car to spin to the left. I attempt to correct and of course, overcorrect, landing my sorry ass into the central barrier. It is a miracle that nobody else was around when I was spinning.

So now I am on the M4 fast lane, facing the wrong way in the middle of the night, with no way out in sight. I find that whilst I didn't feel anything when I hit the gravel and lost control and went into a barrier, I do feel scared right now. I feel an adrenaline surge like none I've ever experienced and watching those cars come within mere inches of mine at speeds in excess of 90mph make me feel very, very nervous. So I make a frantic call to emergency services, who advise me to get out of the car. That's nice, but where to?

Someone must have heard my fears because a '05 reg VW stops on the hard shoulder. A man gets out, dons a fluorescent jacket, grabs a spare, runs across the motorway, sees he has an opening in that the motorway was going to be quiet for the next 20 seconds, and literally grabs me out of the car and takes me to the hard shoulder. I had nothing but a T-shirt so he gave me a spare jacket, a spare fluorescent jacket, he said he'll stay with me to the end, he allows me to take calls from his car so I can get help, and he even offers to drive me home if I need it. It was only then that I looked and saw two kids and his wife in the car. This man was ready to postpone his plans (he was taking his family to legoland) to help me out. A hero of the highest order.

Nothing hit my car in the end, but I probably owe him my life regardless.

First person to arrive is an ambulance. Possibly due to my frantic manner in the phone call, he was very surprised to notice that I am fine and I don't have a single scratch on me. Only then do I notice he is right. I instantly become fascinated at the way I can survive a 75mph collision with a metal barrier without a single scratch, especially when we consider my car is dead. At least from here I think it is, because it is dark and whilst my car is still in the middle of the fast lane... my bumper is in a ditch beyond the hard shoulder, the license plate glowing blue from the ambulance's lights. This strikes a nerve (a lot of things will tonight) and I suddenly find I have a slight case of the shakes.

Soon therafter the police arrive. I tell my saviour that he shouldn't stay and that I will have to take care of myself from here on in, and he only seems to accept that when the policeman voices the same opinion. The police ask me routine questions, make a vehicle check, insurance check, license check, and alcohol check, and we put down the cause as lack concentration due to tiredness. He was a very nice man, telling me he could chase this up but he feels I have suffered enough. He gives me a lecture on concentration on the road especially on a straight motorway in the middle of the night when I am alone in the car, and ends the lecture saying he knows I don't want to hear it, but that he would much rather give me the lecture rather than be the one who has to inform my father of my recent death. That sentence struck a hell of a nerve. I found my recent adrenaline rush to be just about negated and I find my slight case of the shakes to be a severe one by now.

I manage to phone recovery who inform me that they will take upwards of an hour to show up, which means I am stuck on the side of the motorway with nothing but a T-shirt for an entire hour at 10pm. Highways agency stop and hand me a 'space blanket' which looks like a huge strip of tin foil to wrap around myself. I thought they were joking and obviously my facial expression gives this away as the man says 'trust me, it doesn't look like much but it might just save you from frostbite.' Damn if he wasn't right. The strip was paper thin but no wind gets through. I am absolutely frozen stiff by now and doing nothing but thinking. Thinking about what I must do, where I can go, the fact that I nearly died and how the hell do I tell my father that I have just gone and crashed a car he bought me no more than three months ago and nearly went and killed myself in the same move?

Recovery arrives and at this point I feel like a stalagmite but at least the truck has heating. My car gets towed to the university where I decide to make my next call to my dad. Upon finding out that I have crashed he goes from extremely concerned about my health to completely furious and back to concerned when he realises I was on the M4 in the space of 90 seconds. He tells me he will be here tomorrow (Saturday) to see what we must do.

I decide to go to uni halls which I've moved into earlier today. Walking past the communal kitchen one of the guys pokes his head out:
'You must be the new guy, you all right?'
'Not really, no'
'Why?'
I bet he was totally expecting the story that followed ;)

I find I have an urge for drink and gulp down some vodka to calm me down, and sleep. Pretty easily, considering.

Fast forward to this afternoon. The car is now in car heaven, where it shall stay. RIP Clio, they were fun days :(
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Blackstar
20-10-2007, 18:47
Glad you are ok Eddie.

Haly
20-10-2007, 18:47
That's.......scary.
Glad you're ok :) Sounds like you've had the lectures and hopefully taken them on board so I won't go into that too ;)
Scary how easily it can happen though.

Nutcase
20-10-2007, 18:52
Whoah - glad you're ok!

Sounds like the right person was driving by at that time too. There really are genuine and heroic people still out there :)

Kell_ee001
20-10-2007, 19:21
Glad you're ok and even in those unpleasent circumstances I can see why you count yourself lucky :)

petemc
20-10-2007, 19:34
Bloody hell dude! Glad to hear you're ok. The guy who stopped sounded like such a nice guy. Really nice to hear that he was so generous with his time.

Belmit
20-10-2007, 21:10
Amazing story with thankfully the most positive outcome we all could have hoped for, considering what may have been. Glad there was no lasting damage. :)

I had a bit of a wake up call a few days ago myself. Coming home on the commute I've done about a thousand times before, I approached a roundabout in the outside lane with a car on my inside. Somehow the roundabout was suddenly upon me and for some reason I just hadn't noticed how quickly. Conditions were damp after a long period of dryness so very slippery. Stamped on the brakes a little too heavily as a reaction and the wheels locked, sliding forward at just under 70 with the kerb to my right and a car to the left. Released with a bit of correction and hit the brakes again, locking a second time. Came to the realisation that if anything moved out of the left-hand lane into mine then I'd definitely be in a spot of bother. Pressed the brakes for the final time and locked again, sliding to a halt on the white line. Had there been a car there I would have shunted it straight onto the roundabout. Been driving rather more conservatively since then.

Glad I kept my head and lifted as the car started to slide. Had I just kept my foot on the brake there definitely would have been consequences.

Tak
20-10-2007, 21:29
Glad you came out in one piece and kudos to the guy who stopped to help you out :)

Glad you're ok too Chris :)

LeperousDust
20-10-2007, 23:15
As i just spoke to you on MSN, yeah you were lucky suck it up to experience and don't let it scare you off driving at all... I wrote my mums car off (male boy racer sterotype me?) a few months after passing my test into the back of two cars... All my bad really i admit it now but you have to move on :)

Darrin
21-10-2007, 02:14
Glad you're ok. Is there any way for the police to find out contact details of the family who stopped to help? IT would be nice to be able to send a thank you card or something to him and his family.

I know the possibilities are slim, but maybe a dash cam or something caught his reg plate and they can look it up for you.

jmc41
21-10-2007, 15:43
Wow, lucky escape. Glad that guy stopped, not many that would these days :s

Will
21-10-2007, 16:42
L'important c'est que tu vas bien. C'est un sacre shoque - j'espere que ca ne va pas te traumatiser trops longtemp. Qu'est ce que tes parents on dit? L'insurance va payer? Je suis completement ravis que ce n'ete pas plus serieux. Ne reflechi pas au "qu'est-ce qu'il aurait pu se passer" ca ne vaux pas la peine. Garde l'experience comme un lesson et n'essaye pas d'etre trops nerveux!

Dymetrie
21-10-2007, 17:08
L'important c'est que tu vas bien. C'est un sacre shoque - j'espere que ca ne va pas te traumatiser trops longtemp. Qu'est ce que tes parents on dit? L'insurance va payer? Je suis completement ravis que ce n'ete pas plus serieux. Ne reflechi pas au "qu'est-ce qu'il aurait pu se passer" ca ne vaux pas la peine. Garde l'experience comme un lesson et n'essaye pas d'etre trops nerveux!

Blimey.

I pretty much understand most of that :shocked:

Will
21-10-2007, 17:15
:)

killerkebab
22-10-2007, 00:16
L'important c'est que tu vas bien. C'est un sacre shoque - j'espere que ca ne va pas te traumatiser trops longtemp. Qu'est ce que tes parents on dit? L'insurance va payer? Je suis completement ravis que ce n'ete pas plus serieux. Ne reflechi pas au "qu'est-ce qu'il aurait pu se passer" ca ne vaux pas la peine. Garde l'experience comme un lesson et n'essaye pas d'etre trops nerveux!J'étais assuré au tiers (quel con!) donc pas de paiement, et la voiture est foutue. Mon père était furieux mais je crois que maintenant qu'il a eu le temps de se calmer il voit ça comme une bétise a ne plus répéter. Je revois l'image des voitures qui arrivent vers moi Ã* 150km/h dans ma tète parfois... je n'ai jamais eu aussi peur de ma vie, mais je vais bien maintenant :)

Del Lardo
22-10-2007, 01:30
You've been given a telling off so nothing I could add on that front would help and from what you've said the experience has done more than a telling off ever could. Put it down to experience and be as grateful as we are that you walked away unscathed.


If you don't mind one question.... Didn't the rumble strip alert you to the fact that you were "off line" or was your steering angle too far off when you were passing over it?

killerkebab
22-10-2007, 13:49
If you don't mind one question.... Didn't the rumble strip alert you to the fact that you were "off line" or was your steering angle too far off when you were passing over it?Considering the right hand side of the car was fine and the left had side was FUBAR, I'm not even sure if I hit anything, even gravel - I might have simply panicked and sent myself into a spin. I heard a deep noise as in my wheel was going over something it shouldn't and steered away, far too much it would seem...

Blackstar
22-10-2007, 22:22
The deep noise is rumble strip.

killerkebab
23-10-2007, 02:38
The deep noise is rumble strip.Well I clearly sealed my own fate and overcorrected for a danger which wasn't there... lesson learnt :/

Desmo
23-10-2007, 07:33
Glad to hear you're all OK matey :)

Best advice I could give is to get back out driving ASAP. Straight back out onto the motorway and don't dwell on it. Also, drive over the rumble strip on purpose for a few seconds. You'll get used to the noise it makes and you can see how much road there is left before you're actually close to anything. At least this way, if you ever unexpectedly touch it again, you'll know what's going on and how much space you have left :)

Feek
23-10-2007, 08:57
Hitting a rumble strip for the first time can be quite a surprise if you don't know what it is - I have a golden rule when I'm driving that if ever I touch one, I'm stopping at the next available place for a break because I've wandered off track so my attention must be slipping.

Glad you're OK :)

Stelly
23-10-2007, 09:34
glad that your ok dude

Stelly

killerkebab
23-10-2007, 12:00
Glad to hear you're all OK matey :)

Best advice I could give is to get back out driving ASAP. Straight back out onto the motorway and don't dwell on it. Also, drive over the rumble strip on purpose for a few seconds. You'll get used to the noise it makes and you can see how much road there is left before you're actually close to anything. At least this way, if you ever unexpectedly touch it again, you'll know what's going on and how much space you have left :)But now I have no car to drive in :(

Being a lowly university student means I don't have much of a chance to use one anyway, even when I did own one...

Wossi
25-10-2007, 11:37
Hitting a rumble strip for the first time can be quite a surprise if you don't know what it is - I have a golden rule when I'm driving that if ever I touch one, I'm stopping at the next available place for a break because I've wandered off track so my attention must be slipping.

Glad you're OK :)

I know that one. I do a lot of motorway driving for my job so I end up knowing the service stations up and down the M1 quite well. It's bloody scary when you realise you are doing about 70mph and not actually awake enough to concentrate fully. Shame I don't like coffee so it's always a mars bar and a coke before I'm off again.