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CockyGirl
21-09-2008, 01:02
I've been watching eastenders and got wondering about the story line with whitney and her stepdad... It's obvious he's been grooming her since she was young but it got me thinking.
Now that she's approaching 16 will he still be interested as it will then be legal?
Also, this one's for the girls, when you were 16/17 what age was the oldest guy you went out with? :confused: is it wrong that when i was 16 i went out with a 28 year old?
I married the 20yr old I met when I was 15.
CockyGirl
21-09-2008, 01:23
I married the 20yr old I met when I was 15.
awww :)
Blackstar
21-09-2008, 01:27
When i was 16 i went out with some truly unsuitable people, including a 28 year old comedian. You aren't weird or alone maybe it was wrong but hey everyone does stupid things i don't pretend it was a good idea though.
CockyGirl
21-09-2008, 01:37
it is a big age difference isn't it? but when your young you see it as exciting! but now that i have a daughter i think about these things and wonder how would i react if my daughter does half the things i done when i was young and i worry!!! i would hate for her to go through half the stuff i did due to the heartache it caused.
Blackstar
21-09-2008, 01:46
It wasn't exciting, it was just one of those things for me. I have a trail of humorous train wreak style relationships.
The problem you have now with your daughter is one you need to get over. You have come out the other side of all the crap, people need to make mistakes to learn from them, unfortunately when it comes to smelly boys we girls never learn. We get hurt curse all men and say we will never love again, then the next guy catches your eye, especially when you are young.
When I was 16 the oldest I went out with was 18.
When i was 19 I started seeing a 31 year old. Only recently after 4 years together did i realise what a completely crap idea THAT was.
Piggymon
21-09-2008, 09:08
When I was 15 I went out with a 25 year old, my Dad went mental ;D
Knipples
21-09-2008, 09:30
I was 16 going out with a 21 year old.
Then when I was 20 I went out with a 35 year old for 2 years.
Parents werent exactly happy about things to start with in both cases.
I went out with a 27 year old when I was 17. My dad wasn't impressed.
I've gone the other way now and my last 2 partners have been several years younger.
When I was 17 I got with a 30year old, still with the old fart. :)
I was with a 24yr old when I was 15
it is a big age difference isn't it? but when your young you see it as exciting! but now that i have a daughter i think about these things and wonder how would i react if my daughter does half the things i done when i was young and i worry!!! i would hate for her to go through half the stuff i did due to the heartache it caused.
I'm locking my daughters up. I really hope they get up to what I got upto at age 13ish upwards :shocked:
I'm sure my daughters will be wiser than I was, well I can pray they are eeeek. :o:'(
When I was 17 I got with a 30year old, still with the old fart. :)
Who is this old fart of which you speak? I'm only 26.
;)
This by no means is meant to be offensive to any girl ((EDIT - Or Guy!)), particularly the lovelies ((EDIT - or Manly man men HWUR!)) that frequent BD but....
I've never understood these kind of age gap relationships. Not so much when people are 'older' but when the girls involved are 14-18 etc.
This may well be me being a naive chap, (and apologies if I have indeed missed the entire point) but I assume that girls of mid-teen'ish age are flattered by the interest of an older guy, he shows so much more appealing traits than that of the school-leaver boys of their age etc etc. But I fail to understand the mindset of these chaps who are 22-35 going out with girls in said age bracket!
I'm 22 and wouldn't consider dating anyone younger than 18/19- I understand everyone is indeed individual and to generalise like this could be wrong, but my goodness- to date anybody younger than this would feel so strange!
The maturity levels, things in common, life experiences shared etc etc - I just don't think I could relate enough to someone for a relationship.
At the age of 22 (let alone 30+!) there is no way I could feel perfectly normal coming home from work etc giving my gf a kiss and asking "how was school?" !
I hope the above isn't offensive in anyway, it's certainly not intended: this is just a situation that I have never quite understood :)
Knipples
21-09-2008, 12:30
No offence taken here James. *North Somerset, I grew up there!*
Have to say when I was 20 and going out with a 35 year old, part of the reason it didnt work (aside from the fact he ended up running off with the secretary from work :D ) is that he used to kind of tell me off. I'd wanna go out and do silly things that people in their early 20's do and he'd kind of act like my Dad sometimes.
I already had a Dad, I didnt need another one, and I used to get a bit fed up with being "told off"
Needless to say the next one was a toyboy ;)
I know what you are saying James :) I agree.
I have always been mature and was friends with the blokes I was with under 16 and they always thought of me as 18+ as I wasn't like any 'normal' 15 year old.
Although they knew of my age I think it got forgotten in the heat of things and It must have been hard for them to realise that I was just a school girl as I looked older and got into all the pubs and clubs and didn't act at all like a school girl.
I had experienced a lot by the age of 15 as I lost viginity young and was well into boys by the time my friends even thought about having sex.
I wasn't a slag but I was kinda forced to grow up by things that happened as a child and I guess I didn't care about my actions
I have always been into men not boys :/ I tried not to be into men but boys my age didn't attract me at all.
I have been with 1 bloke younger than me and it was crap tbh I like to be taught not me teaching.
I still don't find 25 yr olds attractive it the same way as I find men in 30's attractive.
And on that not Jack from eastenders mmmmm lol
Who is this old fart of which you speak? I'm only 26.
;)
ROFL you wish, although you do act like a 16yr old boy.
:) That's great to hear this situation from a different perspective :)
Knipples, I grew up around the Worle/Weston-super-Mare and surrounding areas - Now I live in Yatton if you're familiar with my sleepy ickle village? :)
/ hijack :eek:
Flibster
21-09-2008, 13:04
Youngest for me:
15. I was 15 at the time myself though.
Oldest:
32 - Was 18 myself. That was fun. ;)
Back on the topic of Tony and Whitney....
He is going off her as she is almost 16. He is looking for his next victim so I hear.
Knipples
21-09-2008, 14:04
Knipples, I grew up around the Worle/Weston-super-Mare and surrounding areas - Now I live in Yatton if you're familiar with my sleepy ickle village? :)
/ hijack :eek:
Nailsea girl myself so yes I know Yatton. The rest of my family still lives there.
:)
*Will stop hijacking thread now*
I once went out with a 37 yr old when I was 18...
He was a DJ lol
:D
PS thanks for bringing me up to speed with Easties... came back from hols and didn't know wtf was going on... I don't like Tony.
BB x
OMG I HAVE JUST SEEN IT!!!! JAMIE BET IT WAS U... OOOoo am going to get you you little *shakes fist* :angry:
Admiral Huddy
22-09-2008, 08:34
No one's ever been older than me :p
No one's older than me :p
Fixed.
Admiral Huddy
22-09-2008, 09:15
I have the T-Shirt :D
The maturity levels, things in common, life experiences shared etc etc - I just don't think I could relate enough to someone for a relationship.
I have found men over the age of 30 to be even more immature and ridiculous that men my own age. So I can fully understand how they would relate to someone younger, as they still think like a child themselves from what I have seen.
I have found men over the age of 30 to be even more immature and ridiculous that men my own age. So I can fully understand how they would relate to someone younger, as they still think like a child themselves from what I have seen.
:o
;D
You talk to Lom too much.
You talk to Lom too much.
only when her msn isnt gaying up :)
Admiral Huddy
22-09-2008, 10:22
I have found men over the age of 30 to be even more immature and ridiculous that men my own age.
I agree \o/ :D
now where's my lego?
I agree \o/ :D
now where's my lego?
probably on the floor... where you would least expect it to be, and stand on it.
thats where it is in my house anyway!
Admiral Huddy
22-09-2008, 10:24
Did I say Lego.. I meant ego :p
Did I say Lego.. I meant ego :p
;D
only when her msn isnt gaying up :)
It wasn't MSN, it was her ignoring you...
It wasn't MSN, it was her ignoring you...
:'(
Those lego men might be small but they sure are experts in causing acute pain in the sole of my feet... notably the jedi lego more than others... :angry:
Those lego men might be small but they sure are experts in causing acute pain in the sole of my feet... notably the jedi lego more than others... :angry:
Using the Lego Force?
chumpychops
22-09-2008, 12:41
Is I hurtle into my 30's i've been thinking about getting myself a young tart to cater for my every whim, along with developing a serious whisky habit.
Thankfully I like them both the same way - 16 years old and topped up with coke.
^^ thankyou, he's here all week.
Well I suppose that's better than the coffee comparison : ground up, placed into small bags and kept in the freezer.
But not that much better :p
I like my women like I like my coffee, lots of milk, one sugar.
chumpychops
22-09-2008, 13:15
Women in public should be like drugs you buy - pure and unmolested.
Women in private should be like drugs you sell - cheap, cut and full of bleach.
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