eastenders

CockyGirl · 21-09-2008, 01:02

I've been watching eastenders and got wondering about the story line with whitney and her stepdad... It's obvious he's been grooming her since she was young but it got me thinking.

Now that she's approaching 16 will he still be interested as it will then be legal?

Also, this one's for the girls, when you were 16/17 what age was the oldest guy you went out with?

is it wrong that when i was 16 i went out with a 28 year old?

Pebs · 21-09-2008, 01:17

I married the 20yr old I met when I was 15.

CockyGirl · 21-09-2008, 01:23

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Originally Posted by Pebs

I married the 20yr old I met when I was 15.

awww

Blackstar · 21-09-2008, 01:27

When i was 16 i went out with some truly unsuitable people, including a 28 year old comedian. You aren't weird or alone maybe it was wrong but hey everyone does stupid things i don't pretend it was a good idea though.

CockyGirl · 21-09-2008, 01:37

it is a big age difference isn't it? but when your young you see it as exciting! but now that i have a daughter i think about these things and wonder how would i react if my daughter does half the things i done when i was young and i worry!!! i would hate for her to go through half the stuff i did due to the heartache it caused.

Lomster · 21-09-2008, 10:42

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Originally Posted by CockyGirl

it is a big age difference isn't it? but when your young you see it as exciting! but now that i have a daughter i think about these things and wonder how would i react if my daughter does half the things i done when i was young and i worry!!! i would hate for her to go through half the stuff i did due to the heartache it caused.

I'm locking my daughters up. I really hope they get up to what I got upto at age 13ish upwards

I'm sure my daughters will be wiser than I was, well I can pray they are eeeek.

Blackstar · 21-09-2008, 01:46

It wasn't exciting, it was just one of those things for me. I have a trail of humorous train wreak style relationships.
The problem you have now with your daughter is one you need to get over. You have come out the other side of all the crap, people need to make mistakes to learn from them, unfortunately when it comes to smelly boys we girls never learn. We get hurt curse all men and say we will never love again, then the next guy catches your eye, especially when you are young.

Gnat · 21-09-2008, 01:50

When I was 16 the oldest I went out with was 18.

When i was 19 I started seeing a 31 year old. Only recently after 4 years together did i realise what a completely crap idea THAT was.

Piggymon · 21-09-2008, 09:08

When I was 15 I went out with a 25 year old, my Dad went mental

Knipples · 21-09-2008, 09:30

I was 16 going out with a 21 year old.
Then when I was 20 I went out with a 35 year old for 2 years.
Parents werent exactly happy about things to start with in both cases.

21-09-2008, 01:02	#1
CockyGirl Nice weak cup of Earl Grey Join Date: Sep 2008 Posts: 27	eastenders I've been watching eastenders and got wondering about the story line with whitney and her stepdad... It's obvious he's been grooming her since she was young but it got me thinking. Now that she's approaching 16 will he still be interested as it will then be legal? Also, this one's for the girls, when you were 16/17 what age was the oldest guy you went out with? is it wrong that when i was 16 i went out with a 28 year old?

21-09-2008, 01:17	#2
Pebs Easymouth Join Date: Jul 2006 Posts: 6,716	I married the 20yr old I met when I was 15. __________________ ...faster you naughty little monkey! Running through hell, heaven can wait!

21-09-2008, 01:27	#4
Blackstar Ambassador of Awesome Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Edinburger Posts: 3,676	When i was 16 i went out with some truly unsuitable people, including a 28 year old comedian. You aren't weird or alone maybe it was wrong but hey everyone does stupid things i don't pretend it was a good idea though. __________________ Jim Garrahy's Fudge Kitchen

21-09-2008, 01:46	#7
Blackstar Ambassador of Awesome Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Edinburger Posts: 3,676	It wasn't exciting, it was just one of those things for me. I have a trail of humorous train wreak style relationships. The problem you have now with your daughter is one you need to get over. You have come out the other side of all the crap, people need to make mistakes to learn from them, unfortunately when it comes to smelly boys we girls never learn. We get hurt curse all men and say we will never love again, then the next guy catches your eye, especially when you are young. __________________ Jim Garrahy's Fudge Kitchen

21-09-2008, 09:08	#9
Piggymon Lara Croft Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: PigmoPad - Braintree Essex Posts: 8,604	When I was 15 I went out with a 25 year old, my Dad went mental __________________ BF% 28/08/08 - 21%

21-09-2008, 01:37	#5
CockyGirl Nice weak cup of Earl Grey Join Date: Sep 2008 Posts: 27	it is a big age difference isn't it? but when your young you see it as exciting! but now that i have a daughter i think about these things and wonder how would i react if my daughter does half the things i done when i was young and i worry!!! i would hate for her to go through half the stuff i did due to the heartache it caused.

21-09-2008, 01:50	#8
Gnat BZZZZZZZZZZZzzzzzzzzzz Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: Manchester Posts: 500	When I was 16 the oldest I went out with was 18. When i was 19 I started seeing a 31 year old. Only recently after 4 years together did i realise what a completely crap idea THAT was.

21-09-2008, 09:30	#10
Knipples nipples lol (o)(o) Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Brissle!!! Posts: 4,947	I was 16 going out with a 21 year old. Then when I was 20 I went out with a 35 year old for 2 years. Parents werent exactly happy about things to start with in both cases.