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Old 06-10-2008, 14:08   #1
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Loads of young men and old folks alike have plenty of interest in women who are wearing almost nothing and gyrating their hips, booty and boobs to music for some cash. I personally feel this is some sort of unhealthy habit as I really do not see the attraction in a woman dancing in a sexual way while am sitting down and parting with my hard earned money between her boobies. No. I am not Gay, but I really do not see the attraction.

While it is not my thing, it appears to be a booming business all over the UK and the America - they call them Titties Bar or something.

I dunno if anyone here will admit to paying for a lap dance or stripe tease and if they will care to explain the attraction. You cannot touch these ladies and it looks like a waste of money in my opinion.
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Old 06-10-2008, 14:13   #2
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I dunno if anyone here will admit to paying for a lap dance or stripe tease and if they will care to explain the attraction. You cannot touch these ladies and it looks like a waste of money in my opinion.
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Old 06-10-2008, 14:18   #3
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I have had a lapdance, it was about 2 years ago when I went away for a Stag do weekend. About 20 of us went into this club and it didn't even costs me anything, some friends paid for it (and I wasn't even the groom). You keep your hands on the seat and the whole thing lasted about 10 mins, it was an experience, I have never been back to another one since nor do I have an intention to go again, but I can see the fun in it and I don't see it do anyone any harm.
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Old 06-10-2008, 14:26   #4
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Mundo. Please elaborate more on the "fun" that you see in it?

While I am not trying to discourage anyone about strip clubs. I think they tend to do loads of damage to a relationship if one of the parties in a relationship makes it a regular habit. Also apart from the dance services they offer, there are other packages that is available as well apparently. lol.


@Nat. What was the attraction? Will you do it again?
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@Nat. What was the attraction? Will you do it again?
It actually happened by accident.

My bf at the time lived in newbury, and I used to travel there to stay the weekend.

Saturday evening came, and we were getting ready to go out... I was all dressed and ready, then looked in my case: I had forgotten my shoes. And was wearing trainers.

No where would have let me in with them on, so He said , jokingly "the only place you are going to get in with those is (cant remember the name now).

So I said "ok, lets go there then", expecting him to say no.

He said ok then, so we went.
When he went to the bar, he was asked if he wanted a dance, and he said "no but my girlfriend does" and the man said "oh ok, and sent someone over"

It was fun, and we stayed maybe an hour or so.

I probably would go again, yh.
Some of my female friends go to one in manchester occasionally, and I probably would go with them. In the right company, it is a laugh

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Old 06-10-2008, 15:10   #6
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I probably would go again, yh.
Some of my female friends go to one in manchester occasionally, and I probably would go with them. In the right company, it is a laugh


Nat in your post, you mentioned that you was expecting him to say "No". Why is that?

I think in some way, Pheebs kinda summed up how a few of us feel about such place.
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Nat in your post, you mentioned that you was expecting him to say "No". Why is that?

I think in some way, Pheebs kinda summed up how a few of us feel about such place.
Because I was actually joking in saying it, and I didnt think at the time it was the sort of place someone would take their GF
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Mundo. Please elaborate more on the "fun" that you see in it?

While I am not trying to discourage anyone about strip clubs. I think they tend to do loads of damage to a relationship if one of the parties in a relationship makes it a regular habit. Also apart from the dance services they offer, there are other packages that is available as well apparently. lol.


@Nat. What was the attraction? Will you do it again?
The fun is that you get to see pretty girls dancing naked in front of you.

I don't see the harm in it unless the person goes in there regularly rather and it becomes an addiction. It is not that much different than looking at porn on DVD/online.
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Old 06-10-2008, 14:28   #9
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Elrazur - I don't get it either

From what I have heard most are somewhat seedy, the ladies aren't exactly anything special and you fork out a tonne for a drink, let alone an "erotic dance". I've also heard that the dances are somewhat pants too! You might as well go to a circus and see some sexy ladies do some super cool dancing moves in not a lot! Much more entertainment for your monies!

With the dances... what are you supposed to do?! It's not like a bloke can sit there and jack one off (well... depending on what club it is... I know of one particular place where dodgy dealings went on but I suspect that's one in a few). Do guys/girls just sit there and watch?! How much of a muppet must you feel!

*sits there* *lady gyrates infront* *smile*... doooobie doo dooo

Just seems stoopid.

Monies wise too... oh my lordy! I mean... really. If you want to see some boobies, which you can't touch, you might as well buy a porno and save a good few bob! Surely for people who like things like that, it would be better as at least then they could do rudes with the boobies infront of them?!

I really can't see what people see in these places. Surely you'd have more of a laugh out with mates at a pub/bar where drinks don't cost you half your wages?!

Meh.

I have problems with it on a completely different level as well (poor Pickys aware if he stepped into one I, nor the dog, would be home when he got back). I have a muchos hate for them Although I don't judge those I know on going. I just... ignore it
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Elrazur - I don't get it either

From what I have heard most are somewhat seedy, the ladies aren't exactly anything special and you fork out a tonne for a drink, let alone an "erotic dance". I've also heard that the dances are somewhat pants too! You might as well go to a circus and see some sexy ladies do some super cool dancing moves in not a lot! Much more entertainment for your monies!

With the dances... what are you supposed to do?! It's not like a bloke can sit there and jack one off (well... depending on what club it is... I know of one particular place where dodgy dealings went on but I suspect that's one in a few). Do guys/girls just sit there and watch?! How much of a muppet must you feel!

*sits there* *lady gyrates infront* *smile*... doooobie doo dooo

Just seems stoopid.

Monies wise too... oh my lordy! I mean... really. If you want to see some boobies, which you can't touch, you might as well buy a porno and save a good few bob! Surely for people who like things like that, it would be better as at least then they could do rudes with the boobies infront of them?!

I really can't see what people see in these places. Surely you'd have more of a laugh out with mates at a pub/bar where drinks don't cost you half your wages?!

Meh.

I have problems with it on a completely different level as well (poor Pickys aware if he stepped into one I, nor the dog, would be home when he got back). I have a muchos hate for them Although I don't judge those I know on going. I just... ignore it
Went to one on a Cardiff stag do, one of the girls was absolutely stunning, she was on the series of UK's next top model a couple of months after, and came 4th.

Thats the only time i had a lapdance, think it was about £30, and id not spend it again, it was rubbish.
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