Bit of advice.. - Page 2

Rich_L · 13-04-2008, 22:47

As said, wouldn't think too much into it if I were you, she sounds like a catch, plus the kid is quite a decent age as you've missed all the messiness

Take it easy I reckon and see where it goes, you never know what might happen! I wouldn't be averse to dating a chick with kid but I am a couple years older, when I was 23 I probably wouldn't have been as keen for various reasons but if I was a bit more stable I probably would have been

Good luck though

Chuckles · 13-04-2008, 22:48

Single mums are more likely to put out and show you a good time

Blackstar · 13-04-2008, 23:34

Starscream that comment is a bit over the line even in jest.

Desmo · 14-04-2008, 07:45

Chill Paula, see the tongue sticking out?

Anyway Mr Pyle, as others have said, why not head out on a date or two and see what you BOTH want before coming to any decisions. I suspect that she'll have her kid at the front of her mind also and making sure she doesn't dive in too fast too soon. Only once you've met a few times can you really get a feel for if it's worth it in the long run

SidewinderINC · 14-04-2008, 07:50

Quote:

Originally Posted by starscream

Single mums are more likely to put out and show you a good time

I LoL'd, and then realised that my mum is a single mum

hahaha.

Jonny69 · 14-04-2008, 09:29

As harsh as this sounds in my early 20's I wouldn't have wanted to deal with someone else's kids. I'm sure she's really nice and I personally don't judge anybody on their past but the relationship wouldn't be for me. It's not just the child, there's an ex to deal with, finances, school, work etc. Think about it. As you get a bit older it's kind of inevitable but when you're still young it might be added stress you don't need.

Just my personal opinion.

Blackstar · 14-04-2008, 13:08

Quote:

Originally Posted by Desmo

Chill Paula, see the tongue sticking out?

I did yes, which is why i mentioned it being in jest.

Maybe i'm alone in feeling that if so feel free to ignore me.

Pumpkinstew · 14-04-2008, 13:12

Four's not such a bad age for kids when you can give them back anyway.

Don't you want to be Unkie Pyle and have a legitimate reason to be playing with trainsets?

PvtPyle · 14-04-2008, 13:13

Ta for the suggestions here guys and girls. A shame you didn't all advocate exactly the same thing, then I could have just copied you

I'm going to give a couple of dates a go and see what happens. You never know, there is still that 10,000:1 possibility that Zirax is right and she just wants to use and abuse me (hurrah!). And if she does, the first person I'll ring is you starscream. When I break my drought, I want you to know about it

Desmo · 14-04-2008, 13:36

Make sure you phone him after the event eh? Don't want him getting over excited

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Rich_L Dr Cocktapuss Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Seven Sizzles Posts: 1,044	As said, wouldn't think too much into it if I were you, she sounds like a catch, plus the kid is quite a decent age as you've missed all the messiness Take it easy I reckon and see where it goes, you never know what might happen! I wouldn't be averse to dating a chick with kid but I am a couple years older, when I was 23 I probably wouldn't have been as keen for various reasons but if I was a bit more stable I probably would have been Good luck though __________________

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Desmo The Last Airbender Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Pigmopad Posts: 11,915	Chill Paula, see the tongue sticking out? Anyway Mr Pyle, as others have said, why not head out on a date or two and see what you BOTH want before coming to any decisions. I suspect that she'll have her kid at the front of her mind also and making sure she doesn't dive in too fast too soon. Only once you've met a few times can you really get a feel for if it's worth it in the long run __________________

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Jonny69 Noob Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Socialist Republik of Kent Posts: 5,032	As harsh as this sounds in my early 20's I wouldn't have wanted to deal with someone else's kids. I'm sure she's really nice and I personally don't judge anybody on their past but the relationship wouldn't be for me. It's not just the child, there's an ex to deal with, finances, school, work etc. Think about it. As you get a bit older it's kind of inevitable but when you're still young it might be added stress you don't need. Just my personal opinion. __________________

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Pumpkinstew Absinthe Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: Mostly Oxford, Sometimes Bristol Posts: 1,156	Four's not such a bad age for kids when you can give them back anyway. Don't you want to be Unkie Pyle and have a legitimate reason to be playing with trainsets? __________________ Get old, or die tryin' PSTEWREVIEWS - Chunks of Meaty Reviews, Mixed with Your Five a Day of News, Comment and Opinion, Floating in a Broth of Suspect Grammar and Seasoned Liberally with Mixed Metaphor. Tasty.

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PvtPyle Sofa Boy Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Wield of the Shire Posts: 701	Ta for the suggestions here guys and girls. A shame you didn't all advocate exactly the same thing, then I could have just copied you I'm going to give a couple of dates a go and see what happens. You never know, there is still that 10,000:1 possibility that Zirax is right and she just wants to use and abuse me (hurrah!). And if she does, the first person I'll ring is you starscream. When I break my drought, I want you to know about it

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Desmo The Last Airbender Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Pigmopad Posts: 11,915	Make sure you phone him after the event eh? Don't want him getting over excited __________________