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Chuckles · 23-05-2008, 01:22

How much paperwork does a squaddie have to do on their time off!?

Blackstar · 23-05-2008, 02:30

I doubt he is a squadie having done tours, they at least let them pass out these days before throwing them into war. As for paperwork it's a dubious excuse at best, you are worth a lot more than being blown off for something so trivial. Stuff him.

Knipples · 23-05-2008, 07:08

Hes a Grenadier guard based in Windsor.

When his leave has finished hes one of those guards in the Red tops with the gert big massive Black furry hats.

I had a message yesterday (I hadnt contacted him at all since he said he would ring me on Tuesday night) which said "Are you free on Sunday, im sorry ive been absent xxxxxxxx"

I sent him a message back saying "Maybe next time you say your going to call me you actually could, you wont get endless chances with me, been there done that, not going there again"

See thats my "I dont give a crap" hat firmly back on.

We shall see, at least he knows now I wont be messed about.

Piggymon · 23-05-2008, 07:10

Um, well that's that then I think :/

Knipples · 23-05-2008, 07:11

Quote:

Originally Posted by Piggymon

Um, well that's that then I think :/

What else could I have said?
Do I have to apologise for biting his head off now?

Piggymon · 23-05-2008, 07:13

I think you were a bit too clingy IMO.

Knipples · 23-05-2008, 07:22

Quote:

Originally Posted by Piggymon

I think you were a bit too clingy IMO.

Aaarrggghhh!
See this is why I dont bother and stay single, cant be dealing with all this!

(not getting at you Piggymon, I just have no idea how to "be")

Piggymon · 23-05-2008, 07:24

Just be yourself, when you try to be anything else it's just not right

Will · 23-05-2008, 09:07

Being single's where it's at

I have to say it did seem a little overly excitable message to him clearly stating that you were hanging on his words/call. But maybe that's just the way you are and you are excitable and keen and you just need someone who responds to that? I don't know - but that's because I don't really know you

I've been on both ends - I've been the excitable/clingy one, and I've been the one scared away by clingy/excitable people. Furthermore I've also been excitable and clingy but with reciprocation from the other side which worked out great - so there is not one solution.

You do learn to tone it down and you do learn to develop a slightly more aloof side as werll as knowing to be a bit more passionate when the time comes or is required. However I seldom know when to be either as I'm usually typically rather full on - I hate playing games. If you like the person just tell them, if you're into them just be into them, don't play any of these stupid mind games

Anyway..... I'm no expert at relationships. I'm either super 100% into the person and get my heartbroken or I'm not 100% comfortable and run away - so not exactly a pinnacle of consistency or knowledge.

Gert macky - I love that expression

One of my best friends is from Brizzle.

LeperousDust · 23-05-2008, 09:51

It sounds like you've give him his last chance, so either he'll think **** this because he doesn't think hes done anything wrong. Or he'll try and make it up.

Im inclined to think he'll **** it because you two haven't been "together" long enough.

Definately "trying" too hard, just relax and enjoy the time you spend with people, without expecting anything to happen. Odds are though something usually happens!

23-05-2008, 01:22	#71
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23-05-2008, 02:30	#72
Blackstar Ambassador of Awesome Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Edinburger Posts: 3,676	I doubt he is a squadie having done tours, they at least let them pass out these days before throwing them into war. As for paperwork it's a dubious excuse at best, you are worth a lot more than being blown off for something so trivial. Stuff him. __________________ Jim Garrahy's Fudge Kitchen

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23-05-2008, 07:13	#76
Piggymon Lara Croft Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: PigmoPad - Braintree Essex Posts: 8,604	I think you were a bit too clingy IMO. __________________ BF% 28/08/08 - 21%

23-05-2008, 07:24	#78
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23-05-2008, 07:08	#73
Knipples nipples lol (o)(o) Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Brissle!!! Posts: 4,947	Hes a Grenadier guard based in Windsor. When his leave has finished hes one of those guards in the Red tops with the gert big massive Black furry hats. I had a message yesterday (I hadnt contacted him at all since he said he would ring me on Tuesday night) which said "Are you free on Sunday, im sorry ive been absent xxxxxxxx" I sent him a message back saying "Maybe next time you say your going to call me you actually could, you wont get endless chances with me, been there done that, not going there again" See thats my "I dont give a crap" hat firmly back on. We shall see, at least he knows now I wont be messed about.

23-05-2008, 09:07	#79
Will BBx woz 'ere :P Join Date: Jan 1970 Posts: 2,147,487,208	Being single's where it's at I have to say it did seem a little overly excitable message to him clearly stating that you were hanging on his words/call. But maybe that's just the way you are and you are excitable and keen and you just need someone who responds to that? I don't know - but that's because I don't really know you I've been on both ends - I've been the excitable/clingy one, and I've been the one scared away by clingy/excitable people. Furthermore I've also been excitable and clingy but with reciprocation from the other side which worked out great - so there is not one solution. You do learn to tone it down and you do learn to develop a slightly more aloof side as werll as knowing to be a bit more passionate when the time comes or is required. However I seldom know when to be either as I'm usually typically rather full on - I hate playing games. If you like the person just tell them, if you're into them just be into them, don't play any of these stupid mind games Anyway..... I'm no expert at relationships. I'm either super 100% into the person and get my heartbroken or I'm not 100% comfortable and run away - so not exactly a pinnacle of consistency or knowledge. Gert macky - I love that expression One of my best friends is from Brizzle. __________________ *No No!*

23-05-2008, 09:51	#80
LeperousDust Bananaman Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Liverpool/Edinburgh Posts: 4,817	It sounds like you've give him his last chance, so either he'll think ** this because he doesn't think hes done anything wrong. Or he'll try and make it up. Im inclined to think he'll ** it because you two haven't been "together" long enough. Definately "trying" too hard, just relax and enjoy the time you spend with people, without expecting anything to happen. Odds are though something usually happens! __________________