eastenders - Page 2

Lomster · 21-09-2008, 10:36

When I was 17 I got with a 30year old, still with the old fart.

I was with a 24yr old when I was 15

Lomster · 21-09-2008, 10:42

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Originally Posted by CockyGirl

it is a big age difference isn't it? but when your young you see it as exciting! but now that i have a daughter i think about these things and wonder how would i react if my daughter does half the things i done when i was young and i worry!!! i would hate for her to go through half the stuff i did due to the heartache it caused.

I'm locking my daughters up. I really hope they get up to what I got upto at age 13ish upwards

I'm sure my daughters will be wiser than I was, well I can pray they are eeeek.

Fayshun · 21-09-2008, 11:49

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Originally Posted by Lomster

When I was 17 I got with a 30year old, still with the old fart.

Who is this old fart of which you speak? I'm only 26.

Jingo · 21-09-2008, 12:23

This by no means is meant to be offensive to any girl ((EDIT - Or Guy!)), particularly the lovelies ((EDIT - or Manly man men HWUR!)) that frequent BD but....

I've never understood these kind of age gap relationships. Not so much when people are 'older' but when the girls involved are 14-18 etc.

This may well be me being a naive chap, (and apologies if I have indeed missed the entire point) but I assume that girls of mid-teen'ish age are flattered by the interest of an older guy, he shows so much more appealing traits than that of the school-leaver boys of their age etc etc. But I fail to understand the mindset of these chaps who are 22-35 going out with girls in said age bracket!

I'm 22 and wouldn't consider dating anyone younger than 18/19- I understand everyone is indeed individual and to generalise like this could be wrong, but my goodness- to date anybody younger than this would feel so strange!

The maturity levels, things in common, life experiences shared etc etc - I just don't think I could relate enough to someone for a relationship.

At the age of 22 (let alone 30+!) there is no way I could feel perfectly normal coming home from work etc giving my gf a kiss and asking "how was school?" !

I hope the above isn't offensive in anyway, it's certainly not intended: this is just a situation that I have never quite understood

Knipples · 21-09-2008, 12:30

No offence taken here James. *North Somerset, I grew up there!*

Have to say when I was 20 and going out with a 35 year old, part of the reason it didnt work (aside from the fact he ended up running off with the secretary from work

) is that he used to kind of tell me off. I'd wanna go out and do silly things that people in their early 20's do and he'd kind of act like my Dad sometimes.

I already had a Dad, I didnt need another one, and I used to get a bit fed up with being "told off"

Needless to say the next one was a toyboy

Lomster · 21-09-2008, 12:53

I know what you are saying James

I agree.

I have always been mature and was friends with the blokes I was with under 16 and they always thought of me as 18+ as I wasn't like any 'normal' 15 year old.
Although they knew of my age I think it got forgotten in the heat of things and It must have been hard for them to realise that I was just a school girl as I looked older and got into all the pubs and clubs and didn't act at all like a school girl.
I had experienced a lot by the age of 15 as I lost viginity young and was well into boys by the time my friends even thought about having sex.
I wasn't a slag but I was kinda forced to grow up by things that happened as a child and I guess I didn't care about my actions

I have always been into men not boys :/ I tried not to be into men but boys my age didn't attract me at all.
I have been with 1 bloke younger than me and it was crap tbh I like to be taught not me teaching.

I still don't find 25 yr olds attractive it the same way as I find men in 30's attractive.
And on that not Jack from eastenders mmmmm lol

Lomster · 21-09-2008, 12:54

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Originally Posted by Fayshun

Who is this old fart of which you speak? I'm only 26.

ROFL you wish, although you do act like a 16yr old boy.

Jingo · 21-09-2008, 13:01

That's great to hear this situation from a different perspective

Knipples, I grew up around the Worle/Weston-super-Mare and surrounding areas - Now I live in Yatton if you're familiar with my sleepy ickle village?

/ hijack

Flibster · 21-09-2008, 13:04

Youngest for me:
15. I was 15 at the time myself though.

Oldest:
32 - Was 18 myself. That was fun.

Lomster · 21-09-2008, 13:59

Back on the topic of Tony and Whitney....
He is going off her as she is almost 16. He is looking for his next victim so I hear.

21-09-2008, 10:36	#11
Lomster Custom Title Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: Fay-Lom mansion Posts: 2,787	When I was 17 I got with a 30year old, still with the old fart. I was with a 24yr old when I was 15 __________________

21-09-2008, 12:23	#14
Jingo Smother me in chocolate and eat flapjacks with it! Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: North Somerset Posts: 1,854	This by no means is meant to be offensive to any girl ((EDIT - Or Guy!)), particularly the lovelies ((EDIT - or Manly man men HWUR!)) that frequent BD but.... I've never understood these kind of age gap relationships. Not so much when people are 'older' but when the girls involved are 14-18 etc. This may well be me being a naive chap, (and apologies if I have indeed missed the entire point) but I assume that girls of mid-teen'ish age are flattered by the interest of an older guy, he shows so much more appealing traits than that of the school-leaver boys of their age etc etc. But I fail to understand the mindset of these chaps who are 22-35 going out with girls in said age bracket! I'm 22 and wouldn't consider dating anyone younger than 18/19- I understand everyone is indeed individual and to generalise like this could be wrong, but my goodness- to date anybody younger than this would feel so strange! The maturity levels, things in common, life experiences shared etc etc - I just don't think I could relate enough to someone for a relationship. At the age of 22 (let alone 30+!) there is no way I could feel perfectly normal coming home from work etc giving my gf a kiss and asking "how was school?" ! I hope the above isn't offensive in anyway, it's certainly not intended: this is just a situation that I have never quite understood __________________ Last edited by Jingo; 21-09-2008 at 12:26.

21-09-2008, 12:30	#15
Knipples nipples lol (o)(o) Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Brissle!!! Posts: 4,947	No offence taken here James. North Somerset, I grew up there! Have to say when I was 20 and going out with a 35 year old, part of the reason it didnt work (aside from the fact he ended up running off with the secretary from work ) is that he used to kind of tell me off. I'd wanna go out and do silly things that people in their early 20's do and he'd kind of act like my Dad sometimes. I already had a Dad, I didnt need another one, and I used to get a bit fed up with being "told off" Needless to say the next one was a toyboy Last edited by Knipples; 21-09-2008 at 12:33.

21-09-2008, 12:53	#16
Lomster Custom Title Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: Fay-Lom mansion Posts: 2,787	I know what you are saying James I agree. I have always been mature and was friends with the blokes I was with under 16 and they always thought of me as 18+ as I wasn't like any 'normal' 15 year old. Although they knew of my age I think it got forgotten in the heat of things and It must have been hard for them to realise that I was just a school girl as I looked older and got into all the pubs and clubs and didn't act at all like a school girl. I had experienced a lot by the age of 15 as I lost viginity young and was well into boys by the time my friends even thought about having sex. I wasn't a slag but I was kinda forced to grow up by things that happened as a child and I guess I didn't care about my actions I have always been into men not boys :/ I tried not to be into men but boys my age didn't attract me at all. I have been with 1 bloke younger than me and it was crap tbh I like to be taught not me teaching. I still don't find 25 yr olds attractive it the same way as I find men in 30's attractive. And on that not Jack from eastenders mmmmm lol __________________

21-09-2008, 13:01	#18
Jingo Smother me in chocolate and eat flapjacks with it! Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: North Somerset Posts: 1,854	That's great to hear this situation from a different perspective Knipples, I grew up around the Worle/Weston-super-Mare and surrounding areas - Now I live in Yatton if you're familiar with my sleepy ickle village? / hijack __________________

21-09-2008, 13:04	#19
Flibster Moonshine Join Date: Jul 2006 Posts: 3,388	Youngest for me: 15. I was 15 at the time myself though. Oldest: 32 - Was 18 myself. That was fun. __________________

21-09-2008, 13:59	#20
Lomster Custom Title Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: Fay-Lom mansion Posts: 2,787	Back on the topic of Tony and Whitney.... He is going off her as she is almost 16. He is looking for his next victim so I hear. __________________