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Roberta · 13-04-2008, 18:25

I agree with what others have said, ignore. She's obviously infatuated with you to be keeping this up after all that time and also must have nothing better to do. I'd also be telling the male friend straight that you don't want her mentioned again as it is in the past and that you've moved on.

I had an experience similar to yours and kittens with a so called friend. She copied everything I did, took the same courses and me and was furious if I ever did a qualification without her! It got to the point where I used to sneak about hiding what I was up to so she couldn't copy me which was just getting silly! In the end she managed to tell stories to the boss about me (at the job I got for her no less!) and put me in a position where I had to resign, although my boss was also to blame as he believed her the fool! Am now just happy I no longer have to handle all that nonsense!

Also, I have no doubt that people will be getting bored about her moaning about you by now and are probably avoiding her anyway! Just be all sweetness and let people work out who is telling the truth as it will be glaringly obvious!

13-04-2008, 18:25	#11
Roberta Pole Model Join Date: Jul 2006 Posts: 5,986	I agree with what others have said, ignore. She's obviously infatuated with you to be keeping this up after all that time and also must have nothing better to do. I'd also be telling the male friend straight that you don't want her mentioned again as it is in the past and that you've moved on. I had an experience similar to yours and kittens with a so called friend. She copied everything I did, took the same courses and me and was furious if I ever did a qualification without her! It got to the point where I used to sneak about hiding what I was up to so she couldn't copy me which was just getting silly! In the end she managed to tell stories to the boss about me (at the job I got for her no less!) and put me in a position where I had to resign, although my boss was also to blame as he believed her the fool! Am now just happy I no longer have to handle all that nonsense! Also, I have no doubt that people will be getting bored about her moaning about you by now and are probably avoiding her anyway! Just be all sweetness and let people work out who is telling the truth as it will be glaringly obvious!