Strip Club, Strip tease, Strip dance et al

[ElRazur]

Loads of young men and old folks alike have plenty of interest in women who are wearing almost nothing and gyrating their hips, booty and boobs to music for some cash. I personally feel this is some sort of unhealthy habit as I really do not see the attraction in a woman dancing in a sexual way while am sitting down and parting with my hard earned money between her boobies. No. I am not Gay, but I really do not see the attraction.

While it is not my thing, it appears to be a booming business all over the UK and the America - they call them Titties Bar or something.

I dunno if anyone here will admit to paying for a lap dance or stripe tease and if they will care to explain the attraction. You cannot touch these ladies and it looks like a waste of money in my opinion.

[Gnat]

Originally Posted by ElRazur

I dunno if anyone here will admit to paying for a lap dance or stripe tease and if they will care to explain the attraction. You cannot touch these ladies and it looks like a waste of money in my opinion.

I have

[Mondo]

I have had a lapdance, it was about 2 years ago when I went away for a Stag do weekend. About 20 of us went into this club and it didn't even costs me anything, some friends paid for it (and I wasn't even the groom). You keep your hands on the seat and the whole thing lasted about 10 mins, it was an experience, I have never been back to another one since nor do I have an intention to go again, but I can see the fun in it and I don't see it do anyone any harm.

[ElRazur]

Mundo. Please elaborate more on the "fun" that you see in it?

While I am not trying to discourage anyone about strip clubs. I think they tend to do loads of damage to a relationship if one of the parties in a relationship makes it a regular habit. Also apart from the dance services they offer, there are other packages that is available as well apparently. lol.


@Nat. What was the attraction? Will you do it again?

[Pheebs]

Elrazur - I don't get it either

From what I have heard most are somewhat seedy, the ladies aren't exactly anything special and you fork out a tonne for a drink, let alone an "erotic dance". I've also heard that the dances are somewhat pants too! You might as well go to a circus and see some sexy ladies do some super cool dancing moves in not a lot! Much more entertainment for your monies!

With the dances... what are you supposed to do?! It's not like a bloke can sit there and jack one off (well... depending on what club it is... I know of one particular place where dodgy dealings went on but I suspect that's one in a few). Do guys/girls just sit there and watch?! How much of a muppet must you feel!

*sits there* *lady gyrates infront* *smile*... doooobie doo dooo

Just seems stoopid.

Monies wise too... oh my lordy! I mean... really. If you want to see some boobies, which you can't touch, you might as well buy a porno and save a good few bob! Surely for people who like things like that, it would be better as at least then they could do rudes with the boobies infront of them?!

I really can't see what people see in these places. Surely you'd have more of a laugh out with mates at a pub/bar where drinks don't cost you half your wages?!

Meh.

I have problems with it on a completely different level as well (poor Pickys aware if he stepped into one I, nor the dog, would be home when he got back). I have a muchos hate for them Although I don't judge those I know on going. I just... ignore it

[Del Lardo]

Had plenty of lap dances in my time

The big chains in the UK & US do not allow touching (woman can touch you but not vice versa) but there are plenty of smaller places that do. Having been to quite a few in Eastern Europe I can say that they do allow touching and quite often a whole lot more. The strip club I ended up in recently in Barcelona was basically a brothel so again you could get what you wanted.

The basic appeal is that you can get a woman who is far more attractive than you could pull on a night out to dance / do dirty things to you.

I used to really enjoy going to them but in the last year or so their appeal has worn off and while I'll still happily go to one (normally as part of customer "entertainment") I very rarely have a dance anymore and when I do it's always someone else paying.

GF knows that I go to them as I tell her and she doesn't mind so long as I'm just looking.

[Gnat]

Originally Posted by ElRazur

@Nat. What was the attraction? Will you do it again?

It actually happened by accident.

My bf at the time lived in newbury, and I used to travel there to stay the weekend.

Saturday evening came, and we were getting ready to go out... I was all dressed and ready, then looked in my case: I had forgotten my shoes. And was wearing trainers.

No where would have let me in with them on, so He said , jokingly "the only place you are going to get in with those is (cant remember the name now).

So I said "ok, lets go there then", expecting him to say no.

He said ok then, so we went.
When he went to the bar, he was asked if he wanted a dance, and he said "no but my girlfriend does" and the man said "oh ok, and sent someone over"

It was fun, and we stayed maybe an hour or so.

I probably would go again, yh.
Some of my female friends go to one in manchester occasionally, and I probably would go with them. In the right company, it is a laugh

[Pheebs]

Originally Posted by Del Lardo

The big chains in the UK & US do not allow touching (woman can touch you but not vice versa) but there are plenty of smaller places that do. Having been to quite a few in Eastern Europe I can say that they do allow touching and quite often a whole lot more. The strip club I ended up in recently in Barcelona was basically a brothel so again you could get what you wanted.

The basic appeal is that you can get a woman who is far more attractive than you could pull on a night out to dance / do dirty things to you.

/\ that just summed up why I hate strip clubs

[vix]

I'd like to go to see some dancing, perhaps pole dancing and stuff, but purely for the dance aspect rather than anything else. I like looking at ladies and assume Phil does too.

Not sure it would do anything for me in a sexual way though. Which I assume is the point.

[Del Lardo]

Originally Posted by Pheebs

/\ that just summed up why I hate strip clubs

The fact that they quite often offer other services or the fact that the guys can't touch?