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Knipples · 13-04-2008, 09:41

Ok so bear with me first thread ive started and all that, but I would really appreciate peoples advice on a situation ive been dealing with for 6 months now.

I feel safe posting this here because on other forums there are other people I know who post and read my posts, and as far as im aware none of those people are on here.

Getting to my point now!

I was friends with a girl for a couple of years, went to football with her, hung out with her, got drunk with her etc, but she was a very controlling sort of person, wanting to know where I was and who with etc, which really annoyed me, and back in October I finally had enough of her, and told her that I didnt want to be her friend anymore.

Since then I have moved on, made other friends and no longer associate with her at all. She however has become a very bitter person and is bad mouthing me to anyone who will listen. Shes accused me of fraud (which I have proven I am not guilty of this) shes accused me of writing her husband a poison pen letter about affairs she has had (which I did not do) and is basically still bitching about me 6 months later. I keep wanting her to just stop and pack it in and pretend I never existed, but she doesnt seem to be able to do this. I have done my very best to ignore it, but nothing seems to make her stop, I have proof she was still bitching about me to other people last week.

Should I just keep ignoring her and hope she packs it in eventually? I dont really know what else to do. Sorry for ranting, but she visits other forums I go on, including ocuk and then uses things ive posted and twists them to suit what she wants to tell people. For example, she viewed the Feek birthday thread and then went about telling people I was showing my tits off to people (but if she had bothered to read the thread she would have seen the context, and the fact that mine werent the only lady bumps posted!)

Im at a loss as to what to do next really, and so have turned to you for help, sorry for such a long post!

13-04-2008, 09:41	#1
Knipples nipples lol (o)(o) Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Brissle!!! Posts: 4,947	Help! This is the only place I can post this Ok so bear with me first thread ive started and all that, but I would really appreciate peoples advice on a situation ive been dealing with for 6 months now. I feel safe posting this here because on other forums there are other people I know who post and read my posts, and as far as im aware none of those people are on here. Getting to my point now! I was friends with a girl for a couple of years, went to football with her, hung out with her, got drunk with her etc, but she was a very controlling sort of person, wanting to know where I was and who with etc, which really annoyed me, and back in October I finally had enough of her, and told her that I didnt want to be her friend anymore. Since then I have moved on, made other friends and no longer associate with her at all. She however has become a very bitter person and is bad mouthing me to anyone who will listen. Shes accused me of fraud (which I have proven I am not guilty of this) shes accused me of writing her husband a poison pen letter about affairs she has had (which I did not do) and is basically still bitching about me 6 months later. I keep wanting her to just stop and pack it in and pretend I never existed, but she doesnt seem to be able to do this. I have done my very best to ignore it, but nothing seems to make her stop, I have proof she was still bitching about me to other people last week. Should I just keep ignoring her and hope she packs it in eventually? I dont really know what else to do. Sorry for ranting, but she visits other forums I go on, including ocuk and then uses things ive posted and twists them to suit what she wants to tell people. For example, she viewed the Feek birthday thread and then went about telling people I was showing my tits off to people (but if she had bothered to read the thread she would have seen the context, and the fact that mine werent the only lady bumps posted!) Im at a loss as to what to do next really, and so have turned to you for help, sorry for such a long post!