Relationships, love, affairs and gumph - Page 3

Piggymon · 21-04-2011, 20:11

I love my husband muchly

Knipples · 21-04-2011, 20:44

Its not that I wouldn't like to meet someone, and I would happily have it turn out the way it is once all the initial lust has worn off, but I just never seem to find myself in opportunities to meet men.
I really miss someone to give me a hug when i've had a difficult day at work, or ask me how my day was, or just someone to pay me the odd compliment, I just don't know how to go about finding it.

Kitten · 21-04-2011, 22:18

I wish you had a nice guy too. You deserve it x I love this thread is making me happy to feel the love in the room

Mondo · 22-04-2011, 19:49

Things I believe in

Never stop chasing your dreams
Never stop stop dating your partner. Even when you are married, never stop the chase.

I find it difficult to put down my feelings openly online for the world to see but unfortunately (or fortunately, as I can't being myself to be that bad boy), i am that romantic guy, i am that guy who rather be in love. I am also rather be alone than with someone I am not 100% happy with. It is a blessing that i am busy these days as it I don't have time to stop to think about that i am alone.

Will · 24-04-2011, 19:35

I can't offer much help as I have a very skewed view on relationships - however I don't think there is a "one" for everyone (there is for some clearly) - but sometimes you are with someone for a period of time, and you just need to accept it and get the best out of it whilst you are there together in one another's lives.

Live your life, nullum desiderium, and try not to worry about what might or might not happen.

camerajuan · 30-04-2011, 03:52

I never worried about what might happen, then my gf of 2 years cheated on me.

I moved on. Got on with my life after a while of being a ridiculous human being and found someone by pure chance when I went to Bulgaria in 2008. 2 1/2 years of rosy awesomeness. Absolute bliss. Could not be happier.

She tonight, after I voiced the way I feel about her chastising me, in exactly the same tone of voice she used whenever she decides what I have just said is wrong - even if its just an opinion - has ended it.

Top it all off, I went out for a walk to calm down and a bunch of Kok'edds decided I was their target tonight and attacked me. £10 down and a lovely bloodied head.

Worst night of my life.

Will · 30-04-2011, 09:32

Sorry to hear that dude

*manly hugs*

Jingo · 30-04-2011, 10:50

Ouch - sorry to hear such bad news juan... *hugs with manly back slaps*

camerajuan · 30-04-2011, 12:27

After a lot of phonecalls & a little bit of self pitying, the only wound I now have from last night is on my head.

I am well & truly attached again. All is right. Sorry for the panic!

Jingo · 30-04-2011, 13:33

So 'were you on a break' ?

Glad you're in a better way this morning

21-04-2011, 20:11	#21
Piggymon Lara Croft Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: PigmoPad - Braintree Essex Posts: 8,604	I love my husband muchly __________________ BF% 28/08/08 - 21%

21-04-2011, 22:18	#23
Kitten Spinky-Spank Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: 668. The Neighbour of the Beast Posts: 11,226	I wish you had a nice guy too. You deserve it x I love this thread is making me happy to feel the love in the room __________________ "You only get one life. There's no God, no rules, except for those you accept or create for yourself. Then once it's over... it's over. Dreamless sleep for ever and ever. So why not be happy while you're here?" Nate Fisher

22-04-2011, 19:49	#24
Mondo Absinthe Join Date: Jul 2006 Posts: 2,174	Things I believe in Never stop chasing your dreams Never stop stop dating your partner. Even when you are married, never stop the chase. I find it difficult to put down my feelings openly online for the world to see but unfortunately (or fortunately, as I can't being myself to be that bad boy), i am that romantic guy, i am that guy who rather be in love. I am also rather be alone than with someone I am not 100% happy with. It is a blessing that i am busy these days as it I don't have time to stop to think about that i am alone. __________________ My Website / MSN / Email / Flickr / Blog

24-04-2011, 19:35	#25
Will BBx woz 'ere :P Join Date: Jan 1970 Posts: 2,147,487,208	I can't offer much help as I have a very skewed view on relationships - however I don't think there is a "one" for everyone (there is for some clearly) - but sometimes you are with someone for a period of time, and you just need to accept it and get the best out of it whilst you are there together in one another's lives. Live your life, nullum desiderium, and try not to worry about what might or might not happen. __________________ *No No!*

30-04-2011, 03:52	#26
camerajuan Long Island Iced Tea Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Southampton Posts: 211	I never worried about what might happen, then my gf of 2 years cheated on me. I moved on. Got on with my life after a while of being a ridiculous human being and found someone by pure chance when I went to Bulgaria in 2008. 2 1/2 years of rosy awesomeness. Absolute bliss. Could not be happier. She tonight, after I voiced the way I feel about her chastising me, in exactly the same tone of voice she used whenever she decides what I have just said is wrong - even if its just an opinion - has ended it. Top it all off, I went out for a walk to calm down and a bunch of Kok'edds decided I was their target tonight and attacked me. £10 down and a lovely bloodied head. Worst night of my life. __________________ British by law, Scottish by birth, Highlander by the grace of God.............Alba gu Braith My Papa - 31/12/28 - 25/1/2011 Goodnight old man, I'll miss you

30-04-2011, 09:32	#27
Will BBx woz 'ere :P Join Date: Jan 1970 Posts: 2,147,487,208	Sorry to hear that dude manly hugs __________________ *No No!*

30-04-2011, 10:50	#28
Jingo Smother me in chocolate and eat flapjacks with it! Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: North Somerset Posts: 1,854	Ouch - sorry to hear such bad news juan... hugs with manly back slaps __________________

30-04-2011, 12:27	#29
camerajuan Long Island Iced Tea Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Southampton Posts: 211	After a lot of phonecalls & a little bit of self pitying, the only wound I now have from last night is on my head. I am well & truly attached again. All is right. Sorry for the panic! __________________ British by law, Scottish by birth, Highlander by the grace of God.............Alba gu Braith My Papa - 31/12/28 - 25/1/2011 Goodnight old man, I'll miss you

30-04-2011, 13:33	#30
Jingo Smother me in chocolate and eat flapjacks with it! Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: North Somerset Posts: 1,854	So 'were you on a break' ? Glad you're in a better way this morning __________________