24-09-2009, 21:33 | #11 |
The Last Airbender
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I can't really help in any way mate but my parents are going through this right now. It DOES get better but you will have a few set backs along the way. You think everything is going smoothly and then something crops up. I know it's not what you want to hear right now but it's no good me sugar coating it for you. Drop me a mail or PM if you want to. I'm also on MSN pretty much all day during the week
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27-09-2009, 22:24 | #12 |
Long Island Iced Tea
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Just need to post this to get it out my system.....came home from a lovely day out with my boys to be told 'we need a chat'
Looks like they are moving out this weekend, just around the corner and 2 doors away from her parents..im now im total shock This has all happend so quickly |
27-09-2009, 22:29 | #13 |
nipples lol (o)(o)
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Im sorry.
If its any consolation at least they won't be far away. (not that it's the same as being in the same house as them) |
28-09-2009, 07:38 | #14 |
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28-09-2009, 13:19 | #15 |
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Ouch! At least the kids aren't too far away which is always a good thing. Spend as much time with them as you can - they'll never be that age again.
How well do you get on with her parents btw? Why does that always translate as "I'm going to tell you something"?
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28-09-2009, 16:25 | #16 | |
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More along the lines of, "I'm going to destroy every last shred of emotional being that exists in you, throw it on the floor and trample it right in front of your eyes. I will then make you eat the remains so I can do it all over again." Either that or, "You ****ed up bad this time. Prepare to have your heart ripped out your colon." Sorry to hear about the break up, Iain. It's never a good thing and my experience certainly didn't go smoothly. The only blessing in disguise I had was she packed up and ran almost 1,000 miles away and we had no kids.
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28-09-2009, 20:04 | #17 |
Long Island Iced Tea
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****ing hellfire this is doing me in most weird posting about it on a forum as well..... I am a total emotional wreck at the minute (which makes work...interesting)
Im intending to spend as much time as I possibly can, they were told this evening, at least that is out the way and yes, they are just around the corner so for them its a bit of an adventure (and now they have a room each) Just in case anyone wants to help refurbish the house.... http://cgi.ebay.co.uk/ws/eBayISAPI.d...m=260483157470 |
29-09-2009, 11:37 | #18 |
Rocket Fuel
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I'm so sorry that you are having such a crap time!! I guess like others have said, its good they will be living close to you. I hope that you start feeling a bit more with it emotionally easier said than done I know *hugs*
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